When we first heard of the 69 position, a position that involves simultaneous oral sex, we thought it seemed difficult. How are we supposed to focus on our partner when we’re being pleasured at the same time! And, to be honest, it isn’t easy, though it is fun.
The easiest way to do this is to have one person lie on their back or side, knees down, and the other person lie on top or on the side of them with their head toward their partner’s feet so each can reach the other’s genitals. As each of you gets more into it the intensity often increases, and it’s easy to feel how close your partner is to orgasm.
Even though you’re so distracted by the pleasure and feel that maybe you’re not giving a top-of-line performance, that’s okay.