If you’re looking to go again after a climax, be gentle with your partner’s sex organs. Following an orgasm, the clitoris or penis is likely to be very sensitive, and your partner may even shy away from your touch.
After a period of time (this depends on your partner), your partner might be ready to go again, but be patient.
While you’re waiting, touch and kiss your partner’s other erogenous zones to try to rebuild sexual arousal.
It’ll be more effective than twiddling your thumbs and asking if your partner is ready yet.