Hand massages are nice, particularly if you’ve been working with your hands for most of the day. If you haven’t yet tried it, there’s nothing quite like having your fingers sucked.
To give this pleasurable experience to your partner, take each finger, one at a time, into your mouth and, holding the rest of the hand, slowly suck on them, stopping and flicking your tongue at the tips of the fingers.
One note of caution: while you’re doing this, try not to get the finger too wet, just wet enough so it’s lubricated to slide easily in and out of your mouth.
If after you do this and your partner looks at you but doesn’t seem any more aroused, check to see if your partner has fallen asleep with his or her eyes open.