This is a simple and very passionate position that could just as easily be called the ‘clinging on for dear life’ position. The man stands and the woman puts her arm around his neck like she wants to whisper a secret into his ear. She then lifts herself up and wraps her legs around his middle. He must hold her by the buttocks or thigh and holds her to him like a sail on a boat. This position could result in your capsizing if you are not slow to enter into it and can take a lot of energy and balance – but try to avoid using furniture as support if you can for the full effect.