One of the great things about watching porn and reading erotica is that it helps you develop a sexual language that has a bit more bite than the words used in this book. And this can be the perfect kind of jargon to use in bed.
Though you might feel a little silly at first using raunchy, aggressive terminology, try telling your lover what you’d like her to do to you in no uncertain terms, or say what you want to do to him.
Play around with the words you’ve heard to see which make your lover smile or grimace. If you both end up laughing, that’s okay too!