Another increasingly popular way of turning on your mate when you’re far away is sending sexually suggestive text messages, or sexting.
If you send one out, such as “just thinking of you and getting a bit hard,” and you don’t get anything back, don’t panic that you’ve offended your partner.
Some people just aren’t big texters, or your partner might not know how to respond. In this case, it might be worth a conversation to tell your partner you’d love it if he or she could respond in kind. Another option, if texting isn’t your style or if you’re overseas, is sending sexy e-mails or letters.
The e-mail doesn’t have to be long, but make sure to express the dirty thoughts that are running through your mind.